The only three true job interview questions are: 1. Can you do the job? 2. Will you love the job? 3. Can we tolerate working with you?

Dr. Phil speaks with his guest, Paul, who has been unemployed for three years. After working in a high-tech industry and living in the lap of luxury, Paul doesn't want to take a menial job to get by in the meantime. He and his wife, Debbie, now live in a hotel room and are one step away from being homeless.

Did you know a great majority of employment decisions are made within the first few minutes. Realize that during our conversations, especially the first minute, a very small portion of the first impression we give is via words. The remaining is based upon paralanguage; pitch, amplitude, rate, and voice quality of speech as well as body language. Click here for some tips interviewing.

You know the feeling. That co-worker of yours has been driving you nuts all day with constant chatting. Or perhaps it’s a subordinate who can never get it right. Or maybe that last demand from an unreasonable boss.

I recently spoke with Rick Smith, who is the author of The Leap: How 3 Simple Changes Can Propel Your Career from Good to Great.